{"id":7500,"date":"2023-12-01T00:01:41","date_gmt":"2023-12-01T08:01:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/packinghouseredlands.org\/devotional\/?p=7500"},"modified":"2026-06-01T13:56:44","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T20:56:44","slug":"job-614-to-him-who-is-afflicted-kindness-should-be-shown-by-his-friend-even-though-he-forsakes-the-fear-of-the-almighty-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/packinghouseredlands.org\/devotional\/?p=7500","title":{"rendered":"Job 6:14: &#8220;To him who is afflicted, kindness should be shown by his friend, \/ Even though he forsakes the fear of the Almighty.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Job rebuked his friend Eliphaz in this chapter because Eliphaz believed Job was suffering because he had sinned. Job argued that even if he had forsaken God (which he hadn&#8217;t), true friends should still show some kindness. He questioned how Eliphaz could keep pushing the attack against Job. Today we might say something like, &#8220;Cut me some slack.&#8221; Job made it clear that he would listen to his friends if their advice was good, but what kind of friend only argues, attacks, and condemns? When we suffer, we need words of comfort not words of condemnation.<\/p>\n<p>In the New Testament, we are commanded to become a source of comfort to those who are suffering. The apostle Paul wrote to the Corinthians to be like God &#8220;who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God&#8221; (2 Cor. 1:4). The Greek word Paul uses for <em>tribulation<\/em> means &#8220;narrow, confined under pressure or to be hemmed in by difficult circumstances.&#8221; After we have been under these stresses and God has brought encouragement to us, then we have an obligation to do the same for others. Our own suffering directly benefits those we serve.<\/p>\n<p>Oswald Chambers said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Suffering is the heritage of the bad, of the penitent, and of the Son of God. Each one ends in the cross. The bad thief is crucified, the penitent thief is crucified, and the Son of God is crucified. By these signs we know the widespread heritage of suffering.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>&#8220;LORD, use us today to bring words of comfort and healing to someone else who is on the road of suffering.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>=============================================================<\/p>\n<p>Job 6 KJV<\/p>\n<div class=\"p\"><span class=\"verse-span verse-hover\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">1<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span verse-hover\"><span class=\"verse_text\">But Job answered and said, <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">2<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Oh that my grief were throughly weighed, and my calamity laid in the balances together!<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">3<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">For now it would be heavier than the sand of the sea: therefore my words are swallowed up.<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">4<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">For the arrows of the Almighty <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">are<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">within me, the poison whereof drinketh up my spirit: the terrors of God do set themselves in array against me. <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">5<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Doth the wild ass bray when he hath grass? or loweth the ox over his fodder?<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">6<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Can that which is unsavoury be eaten without salt? or is there <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">any<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">taste in the white of an egg? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">7<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">The things <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">that<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">my soul refused to touch <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">are<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">as my sorrowful meat.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"p proza-indent-1\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">8<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Oh that I might have my request; and that God would grant <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">me<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">the thing that I long for!<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">9<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Even that it would please God to destroy me; that he would let loose his hand, and cut me off! <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">10<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Then should I yet have comfort; yea, I would harden myself in sorrow: let him not spare; for I have not concealed the words of the Holy One. <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">11<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">What <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">my strength, that I should hope? and what <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">mine end, that I should prolong my life? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">12<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">my strength the strength of stones? or <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">my flesh of brass?<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">13<\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">not my help in me? and is wisdom driven quite from me? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">14<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">To him that is afflicted pity <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">should be shewed<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">from his friend; but he forsaketh the fear of the Almighty.<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">15<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">My brethren have dealt deceitfully as a brook, <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">and<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">as the stream of brooks they pass away; <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">16<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Which are blackish by reason of the ice, <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">and<\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">wherein the snow is hid: <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">17<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">What time they wax warm, they vanish: when it is hot, they are consumed out of their place.<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">18<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">The paths of their way are turned aside; they go to nothing, and perish. <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">19<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">The troops of Tema looked, the companies of Sheba waited for them. <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">20<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">They were confounded because they had hoped; they came thither, and were ashamed. <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">21<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">For now ye are nothing; ye see <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">my<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">casting down, and are afraid.<\/span><\/span> \u00a0<i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i><i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">22<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Did I say, Bring unto me? or, Give a reward for me of your substance? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">23<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Or, Deliver me from the enemy\u2019s hand? or, Redeem me from the hand of the mighty? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">24<\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Teach me, and I will hold my tongue: and cause me to understand wherein I have erred. <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">25<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">How forcible are right words! but what doth your arguing reprove? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">26<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Do ye imagine to reprove words, and the speeches of one that is desperate, <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">which are<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">as wind? <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">27<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Yea, ye overwhelm the fatherless, and ye dig <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">a pit<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">for your friend.<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">28<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Now therefore be content, look upon me; for <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">it is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">evident unto you if I lie.<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">29<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Return, I pray you, let it not be iniquity; yea, return again, my righteousness <\/span><\/span><span class=\"add verse_italic\"><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">is<\/span><\/span> <\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">in it.<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i> <span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_number\"><span class=\"verse_text\">30<\/span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"verse-span\"><span class=\"verse_text\">Is there iniquity in my tongue? cannot my taste discern perverse things?<\/span><\/span> <i class=\"d-inline-block bi bi-record2\"><\/i><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Job rebuked his friend Eliphaz in this chapter because Eliphaz believed Job was suffering because he had sinned. Job argued that even if he had forsaken God (which he hadn&#8217;t), true friends should still show some kindness. He questioned how Eliphaz could keep pushing the attack against Job. 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